Hate vs Compassion

the world is not black and white, it has many beautiful colors, so which color is the right one? Which color is the best one? Which color is the original one? Who cares...they are all beautiful.

the world is not black and white, it has many beautiful colors, which color is the right one? Which color is the best one? Which color is the original one? Who cares…they are all beautiful.

I find myself having a hard time writing lately, at first I wasn’t sure what it was but now I think I know why.

I am the type of person that when things get tough, I quiet down or shut down completely to what is going on around me so that way I protect myself. I’m not saying this is the best thing to do but it’s something I have taught myself over the years, plus it keeps me from getting too emotional about events and saying things in a manner I know I shouldn’t.

So in light of everything that is going on in the world, the looting, the racism (by both sides), and the total lack of respect for other human beings, I find that I just want to pull away, remaining in my own little piece of the world with my family.

You might think I don’t care but you would be wrong, I do care, it’s just that during times like these people are not careful, they seem to lose their common sense, they get too emotionally charged and begin acting like animals. And if they don’t act like animals physically, they do verbally, labeling, calling names, generalizing, and many more, always trying to point the finger but never facing the facts.

How quickly we forget that mankind was made in the image of an Intelligent Being, that we were given the gift of freewill, and in the process of this freewill, we hurt ourselves and others, sometimes intentionally but mostly we don’t mean to do it. If this Intelligent Being can forgive us, why can’t we forgive each other?

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Your Intention

Intention is the key..

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It is not the action
that defines the deed
but rather the intention.
Examine carefully your
intentions for they hold
the keys to your soul.

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Polluting The Present Moment

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What does it mean to pollute something? Do we pollute more than just the water, air, and earth? Can we pollute our own souls?

Pollute is defined as contaminate (water, air, or a place) with harmful or poisonous substances; defile; corrupt. I love to define words, sometimes people can define their words differently so when I define words, I feel as if we are coming from the same understanding.

I bought a shrub from Menards in the fall that was left to die because no one had bought it. When I found it, it was marked down to $5 and all the leaves had either turned yellow or fell off, the rest fell off at my house leaving nothing but a bare branches. That shrub was polluted with neglect, denied the life-giving water it needed to thrive. I brought it home and have been nurturing it and watering it regularly.

My shrub in the present moment.

My shrub in the present moment.

I sit here and wonder what that shrub would look like if it held on to that past injustice it went through before I found it? Would it continue to thrive even when I placed it in a nurturing environment? Probably not,  I think it would continue to pollute itself with darkness that isn’t even real in the present moment, and it would eventually die. Nature doesn’t hold on to past injustice, it only lives in the present moment, thriving when what it needs is placed before it.

I’ve noticed over the past few years a disturbing trend, instead of acknowledging the suffering of all people some want to focus on their own suffering, or the suffering of people just like them. This trend has also shown me that these types of people are very angry and bitter towards people who are not like them, almost blaming these people for the injustice even if they had nothing to do with it.

I have also seen that people who are only focused on their own suffering, judge the suffering of others, acting as if what other people go through isn’t as bad as what they went through. Isn’t this what we would call ego? The ego tells us that our suffering is worse than another persons suffering, even though we have no proof of this at all. There is no difference between being killed on a battlefield because of someone’s ego, or being killed in your bed by your own hand because of someone’s ego, the energy behind it is still the same.

This type of thinking pollutes our souls, making us spread hatred all around us, all you have to do is look at the news and you can see what internal hatred is doing to this world. I challenge you to learn from my shrub, let go of the past and thrive in the present moment no matter what your circumstances are, and just so we are on the same ground here, thriving does not mean rich, money never did and never will bring happiness, thriving means being who you were meant to be in each moment.

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What Is Thanksgiving?

Giving thanks

Giving thanks

Thanksgiving is coming soon, what does it mean and why is it overlooked by many people?

Thanksgiving is defined as the expression of gratitude, especially to the Creator, and when the Pilgrims created this holiday in 1621, they had many things to be thankful for. They were thankful to the Native Americans that were tools the Creator used to express His love and compassion for these strangers in this new land.

I won’t go into the dark side of this situation since dwelling on the past injustices only pollutes our present moment, and there are too many people who fall down this path of pain.

I can’t seem to understand why so many people overlook a day of thanksgiving? In this world of excess you would think people would have a lot to be thankful for? Maybe what we have doesn’t really make us happy?

I know that I am thankful for my family, true friends in my life, my home, all of my needs that have been met this year, and my journey of learning and awakening to what life is really about.

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Frustration sets in

Math, the final frontier

Math, the final frontier

Today I found out my daughter is behind in math. Normally I would love to help my children grow and learn but this is an area that has always given me problems, ever since I was a child my mind did not comprehend math.

It’s very frustrating to know that I can’t help her, so I am taking the initiative to learn math again, starting over from the age of 38. My mom bought my daughter a book called “Girls Get Curves” by Danica McKellar (yes, it’s Winnie from Wonder Years. I loved watching that show when I was a kid), and it focuses on helping middle school girls learn geometry.

Of course I need to buy all of her other books like “Math Doesn’t Suck”, “Kiss My Math”, and “Hot X: Algebra Exposed”, which will help me to understand math in a simpler way than what I was taught. I have to admit though, in my mind I believed that math was hard, so math became hard because of what I believed about it. Now I must believe the opposite, know that math is easy and that I can understand it.

I know all I need (and my daughter needs) is for that one person to add the missing piece and our minds will understand math, but the hard part is finding that one person who knows just the right way to explain it and expand our minds.

“Everything is easy for those who believe.”

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A Look Outside My Window

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Have you ever noticed how the pupil of our eye looks like the sun?

Not to mention how the iris looks like nebulas?

Life is amazing.

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What You Inhale You Exhale

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Can a person inhale air and exhale water? Can a person inhale water and exhale fire? Of course not, because there is a Universal law that whatever you take in is what you give off, so if you take in water, that is what you will give off.

If you nurture nature (funny how those two words are so similar), nature will nurture you as well, but if you harm it, it will harm you.

My point in this is not to go over what I’ve talked about before, but to show a deeper awareness of this law.

Humans cannot inhale hatred and fear expecting to exhale love and compassion, it just doesn’t work that way. I am the type of person who is aware of certain types of behavior like hatred going on in the world, but I do not allow myself to inhale it, as this will ultimately lead to me exhaling it onto others.

Today, take a few minutes and really pay attention to what you are taking into your body, what you are infusing with your cells, is it really something you want to exhale on others?

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Resistance Is Futile

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A few weeks ago I started taking hypnosis sessions to help me learn to overcome my problems, even though I’ve only had 2 sessions, I can see a change already.

In the second session we went back to my childhood in an attempt to mend what I had broken, this in turn helped me to stop judging myself, others, and every situation I found myself in.

Apparently I was judging situations as good or bad, when I judge I build a resistance to what IS, hence creating stress inside my mind and body. Have you ever thought about stress being a side effect of not accepting life as it is? Of judging experiences as good and bad?

So when your car breaks down and you don’t accept what is happening, you judge the experience as bad and you create stress within yourself.

Next time something causes you stress, stop resisting the lesson, learn from it and let it go.

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Is Change Really Necessary?

leave the shell behind

leave the shell behind

Today, everywhere we go, we see people telling us we need to change, we need to change the way we eat, the way we think, and the way we do things. Is change really necessary? Or is there something else we need to do? I was looking at my social media page the other day and I saw a link that said now they are genetically modifying our potatoes so that way they are supposedly safer to deep fry and make into potato chips. Why do we feel the need to change things so much? Is changing things really necessary? Change means to make or become different, so is it really necessary to change that potato? Those studies that were done that say the potato has a “potentially dangerous chemical” in it, is just that, a study, it is NOT fact at all and potential means that it could have it, it doesn’t mean it does. So they may be changing something that doesn’t need to be changed, or better yet, shouldn’t be changed. I see it everywhere I go, I need a new car, I need a new house, I need a new this or a new that, we are constantly focused on change, on making things different from what they are. What is the driving force behind this?  Nature is created exactly the way it was meant to be, and I believe we are too, we are born exactly the way we should be, but as we grow older we begin to cover ourselves with dirt, dirt that was never part of our original self. Over time this dirt changes us from the inside out, transforming us. I always thought people were scared of change but when you really look at life, people crave change, when they can’t change the big things right away, they change the small things, giving the illusion of control. Personally, I don’t believe in change, I believe in removing those things in my life that are blocking the real me underneath. I was born exactly the way I should be but I covered myself up with wrong thinking, so now I must remove that thinking and reveal the me that I was born to be. Don’t let anyone, even religion, tell you that you are dirty, sinful, or any of the other terms they use to make you feel bad about yourself. Remember nature, it was created just the way it should be, and so were you, so instead of trying to change yourself, remove those thoughts that are blocking the real you from shining through. removing blockages“We were created with all manner of openings and cavities (physically and spiritually). It is obvious and known before the throne of Glory, that if one would rupture or be blocked, it would not be possible to stand”

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Are You the White Rabbit?

Are you the white rabbit?

Are you the white rabbit?

Do you want a slice of life or the whole thing? What about other people, do you just want a piece of them, or do you want the whole thing? How about that cake, or that apple? Why do we take pieces of life when we are given the whole thing?

I am noticing the longer I blog, that there are 2 kinds of people, there are those who are really interested and feel the article and it’s author, or there are those who just skim to say they read it. Why does it seem that people just want to skim through life? They always seem busy and they can’t waste any more time. These people (and I was one of them) remind me of the white rabbit from Alice In Wonderland.

These people are always scampering around proclaiming with their actions how late they are. How they don’t have time for this, or don’t have time for that, why do our lives have to be in overdrive all the time? Why can’t we slow down and try to take in the entire moment, instead of just skimming through it trying to get to some point in the future that we can never reach?

I understand that life happens, I never get to comment or read all of the blogs that I really want to read, but when I do, I want to be fully engaged in them, to feel what the author is trying to say instead of skimming and missing the point completely.

Have you ever noticed that when people don’t agree on something, that one or both of them are only half listening to the other person, which I believe is the real cause of misunderstandings? I have, I do this myself from time to time, but the first step to change is knowing there is a problem.

When I go out into nature, I try to take in all its beauty, not just what I want to see. I need to look at the dead carcass of an animal, as well as the leaves changing color. Nature is not composed of only the pieces we want to see, and neither is our lives, they are made up of many different experiences and situations that need to be seen in their totality.

Can we do this? Can we as humans learn to look at all of life instead of skimming, especially when we have been doing it for so long? That is the beauty of being human, we can do whatever we set our minds to.

I challenge you to pick one day and try to slow it down as much as possible. Try to actually hear and see all that is going on or being said around you, instead of hurrying to a set moment in the future.

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